{"id":299,"date":"2021-03-18T11:14:34","date_gmt":"2021-03-18T11:14:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/spouseware.net\/blog\/?p=299"},"modified":"2022-07-21T18:01:42","modified_gmt":"2022-07-21T18:01:42","slug":"prevent-child-sexual-assault-and-keep-distance-from-pedophile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/spouseware.net\/blog\/prevent-child-sexual-assault-and-keep-distance-from-pedophile\/","title":{"rendered":"Prevent Child Sexual Assault And Keep Distance From Pedophile"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n

You know what? Pedophiles know how to inspire confidence in children and parents! Thus, child sexual assault has been increased tremendously. Parents, be cautious against these pedophiles. And take immediate steps to safeguard your children against child abuse. You should know how to talk with children about emotional, sexual life, and the risks of sexual assault. It is indeed high time for us to prevent child sexual assault.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Pedophiles And Child Sexual Assault<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Child Sexual abuses are most of the time committed by people in the\u00a0immediate circle\u00a0(family, adult family friends, teenage friends, neighbors, etc.) or people in\u00a0regular contact\u00a0with children (teachers, school teachers. sport or music, associative volunteers).\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pedophile sex offenders are usually people who\u00a0inspire confidence in\u00a0both adults and children.\u00a0They are even often lovely; take care to gain this trust and ward off any mistrust.\u00a0And thus, they gain the opportunity for child abuse. Once his web has been woven and a bond of attachment created with the child, the pedophile, can take action.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As parents, we need to be aware of this mechanism to deal with it effectively.\u00a0However, It does not mean that all child supervisors and volunteers in sports clubs are potentially aggressors and child abusers.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Consequently, the child’s bond will gradually transform into a sexualized friendship in an intimacy more sought after by the aggressor, who creates conditions and opportunities to be alone with the child.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

At this time, the\u00a0predation\u00a0can be\u00a0stopped. It is possible\u00a0if the child tells another adult about his\/her discomfort.\u00a0The sensitized child will feel that this physical proximity is not typical and that something is wrong.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Suppose he knows that his word about this discomfort will be believed and welcomed. In that case, he can confide without shame from the first too intrusive gestures, inappropriate requests, or promiscuity that he considers embarrassing (before the sexual assault in itself ).\u00a0From the moment the child breaks the silence, the aggressions can no longer occur because the aggressor is\u00a0unmasked.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Prevent Child Sexual Assult With Information On Emotional And Sexual Life<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The first preventive measure is to talk about sexual and emotional life simply and joyfully<\/strong>\u00a0with children from an early age.\u00a0 It is ineffective (and can be scary) for a child to talk about the risks of sexual assault before talking about the\u00a0bright side\u00a0of sex life.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It involves naming the body parts with exact words and without embarrassment as soon as the language appears (penis and vulva in particular).\u00a0A child should be able to name their genitals like all other parts of their body.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Insist with children that their\u00a0bodies\u00a0belong to them and that they are the only ones to decide who has the right to\u00a0touch them.\u00a0A child has the right to say no to hugs, kisses, or tickles (even from mom or dad) when they don’t want to.\u00a0He also has the right to say yes and then\u00a0no\u00a0(for example, during a tickling session).\u00a0It indeed teaches children to know and assert their limits and understand that the\u00a0none is to be respected in a non-negotiable way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Finally, a\u00a0respectful education\u00a0allows the child to develop a practical\u00a0internal compass\u00a0(knowledge of her emotions as reliable guides on what is good for her and confidence in her intuition). Thus, she\/ he establishes a relationship of\u00a0trust with parents with whom he or she will not feel apprehensive about confiding.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Love VS Sexuality<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is also important not to confuse love with sexuality.\u00a0It is wrong to say that it is normal for people who love each other to have sex or have intimate physical relationships.\u00a0Not all people who love each other have sex (parents or grandparents and children, brothers and sisters).\u00a0Sexuality is pleasant for\u00a0couples in love\u00a0where neither partner has\u00a0power over the other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Indeed, a child can feel affection for her teacher, sports coach, neighbor, or even uncle, grandfather, or elderly cousin. And in the event of touching or aggression, they can be brought to think that it is because they love each other that there is intimate physical contact.\u00a0It is all the more delicate as it is often the\u00a0aggressors’ speech(because I love you that I touch you, it is expected between people who love each other).\u00a0Remember that\u00a0an adult does not have the right to behave like a lover or a lover with a child\u00a0allows anchoring the abnormal nature of this situation in the child’s mind. Couples with realistic but not alarmist speeches about sexual assault represent effective prevention.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Educate Your Children Against Child Sexual Assault<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is helpful to say that\u00a0adults\u00a0(men or women, adolescents or older people) can have\u00a0inappropriate gestures\u00a0towards children in a prevention discourse.\u00a0It is our role to explain what these inappropriate gestures can be with expressive words.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A Pedophile may ask a child to be naked or to look him naked. He may ask to touch him or his private body parts. Educate your children that it is completely\u00a0forbidden. Moreover, teach them not to agree with such proposals in all circumstances (even offering candy, promising a place in the best team, or some advantage).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Teach your child also the possibilities of blackmailing. They may blackmail your children if your children do not agree with their ill proposals. They may say to your child that they do not love them anymore. Besides, they may claim that they will not allow your children to play video games on their smartphone or laptop.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Above all, teach your children if anyone asks them to keep secrets about anything, your children must share with you. Secret things should stay only with parents!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

How to Talk with Kids About Sexual Abuse<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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How To Prevent Online Child Sexual Assault?<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Our children have a wonderful time surfing online. They play online games and open social network accounts to make new friends, especially teenagers. The pedophiles are also waiting online to satisfy their ill motives.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They will most of the time send a friend request to your son’s or daughter’s social media account (Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, etc.). And later, they will ask for a private chat to lure your teenage child.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A Mom’s Story of Her Teen Who Was Lured By An Internet Predator- The Oprah-Winfrey Show<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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